The term ‘Shadow’ was coined and explored in the 21st century by the Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Carl Jung (Carl Gustav Jung was one of the most important psychologists of the previous century). He saw the shadow as the uncivilized, perhaps wild, part of our being. He believed that if we were to be fully integrated human beings, we needed to fully appreciate this dark side of ourselves.
Also, Jung didn’t feel it was just the people who had the shadows. He also talked about the ‘collective shadow,’ where individuals united their shadows as communities or as cultures. He saw this as a very great danger to civilization when a collective shadow was ‘projected.’
As per him, we all have demons inside us. We fight against them every day—sometimes we fail, sometimes we succeed. These demons that stalk us can be seen only in brief glimpses or in a complete panic. And because of our guilt and shame, we ignore them and dump them.
The definition of the shadow self is based on the idea that we figuratively bury certain bits of personality that we feel will not be embraced, approved, or cherished by others; thus, we hold them in the “shadows.” In brief, our shadows are the versions of ourselves that we do not offer society.
We believe they should remain hidden since they cannot and should not occur in our conscious selves. Society tells us to focus on good things like love and light, but never on darkness or shadow.
It includes aspects of our personality that we find shameful, unacceptable, ugly. It may be anger, resentment, frustration, greed, hunger for strength, or the wounds of childhood—all those we hold secret.
You might claim it’s the dark side of yourself. And no matter what everyone suggests, they all have a dark side of their personalities.
And the problem is we focus purely on the positive side of our personalities. It’s no surprise why most of us avoid the darkest aspect of our identities. However, when we focus only on the “light,” we do not reach the depths of our being.
Jung claims that when the Shadow is shunned, it continues to sabotage our lives. Repressing or ignoring one’s shadow may contribute to addictions, poor self-esteem, psychiatric disorder, chronic illness, and multiple neuroses.
However, you can learn to recognize and work with your shadow self so that you can fulfil your priorities and enjoy the best possible life.
Jung believed that if you didn’t accept your whole being, you couldn’t live a pure and unfettered life. “Until you consider the unconscious, the conscious, it will guide your life,” he said, “and you will call it fate.” A Shadow can contribute to a limitation of beliefs that can escalate through all kinds of negative outcomes: self-sabotage, disruptive acts, shattered relations.
Luckily, we can still own our darkness and bring in lasting progress. Through doing Shadow Work, we shed light on our dark selves, rather than claim to be all “light.”
All the attributes in the shadow can be used; sometimes our most deceptive traits have an intention when we recognize them, and we use them skillfully at the right moment.
Shadow Work is an attempt to reveal all that we have withheld and any aspect of ourselves that has been disowned and ignored within our shadow selves. Because without admitting to ourselves what we have concealed, we remain burdened with issues such as rage, guilt, shame, disgust, and sorrow.
Throughout the evolution of humanity, Shadow Work has played a strong but enigmatic and occult part in helping us to explore what causes us mental distress, physical discomfort, and even psychosis, leading to all sorts of crimes.
Traditionally, Shadow Work has fallen into the realm of the Shamans, or the medicine people, as well as the priests and priestesses of the archaic ages. Today, Shadow Work is more popular in the field of psychotherapy, including psychiatrists, therapists, spiritual guides, and clinicians.
The purpose of shadow work is to put the unconscious aspects of the personality back into our awareness and learn to see all parts of the psyche—to bring what is dark into the light. Without both the dark and the light, you can’t have harmony. Shadow work brings to existence a multi-faceted life that combines the positive, the negative, the pretty, the ugly, the humiliating, the unknown. Everything!
Shadow Work is the method of discovering certain aspects because it is an effort you make on your own. There are different ways to achieve this, but you must first recognize the shadow, and then welcome it and be friends with it. It is only by bringing these aspects to the surface that you can live authentically, find your inner wisdom and purpose in existence, and regain connection to your Soul or Higher Self.
Via different practices, we can bring the pieces that were broken up earlier in our lives back into our psyches and thereby become whole.
Shadow Work reveals us bits of ourselves that we rather not know about—and many people who avoid doing it, don’t want to go there, are the ones who are not interested and disregard this kind of ‘personal development’.
It’s not simple to look at ourselves in this manner, to take accountability and acknowledge the bits that we judge in ourselves and others. The approach, though, is not to permanently avoid the dark aspects of our souls, but to fully embrace and approve them.
It’s a journey of acknowledging the ‘ugly’ aspects of ourselves—our anger, envy, greed, and bitterness—and learning to love them despite our biases.
Shadow work is also trauma work because we rebuild broken pieces of us-many shadows were formed as part of developmental or relationship trauma when we were children, when we didn’t have the ability to cope entirely with our feelings, and so are contained in our nervous system and in the memories we tell ourselves.
Although shadow work is difficult, as it is always followed by the sting of past rejection, the healing of the break between the conscious self and the shadow self can be a life-changing task.
Jung claimed that such a process could help to build a balanced lifestyle and a sense of peace within oneself. Feeling complete, rather than broken, will produce a new sense of independence, freeing us to look at life differently and do new things that we wouldn’t or couldn’t have done before.
Addressing the emotional baggage that has long been lost in our shadows will encourage us to turn up more fully and consciously for our life goals and relationships, whether it’s being a better spouse, a sibling, a child, a parent, an instructor, a counsellor, a mate, or some of the many other parts that we have played in our lives. Shadow work often helps one to have a greater sense of control and a personal agency in an ever-changing and often frustrating universe.
Through evolving us into the truest versions of ourselves we’ve ever been, shadow work therefore assures greater integrity in everything we do.
Finally, through embracing and restoring the aspects of us that we have assigned to our shadows, we will learn to articulate those traits in a healthier way, rather than ignoring them before they express themselves in an unhealthful, uncontrollable way (like lashing out at others in anger or creating a toxic body image and inner dialogue). And beyond that, this acknowledgment can bloom into a deep sense of self-love.
Some Shadow Work activities require you to look at a recurring emotional or behavioral trend in your life.
If you begin to recognize certain habits, you will improve the internal dialogue with yourself at the moment, or by meditation techniques. These forms of shadow work can require the use of specific archetypes to describe your shadow parts so that you can properly understand them.
One of the most critical aspects to note when you’re engaged in shadow work is being respectful to yourself. Not all the answers may come right away, so wherever you are in the journey, encourage yourself to accept all aspects of yourself, shadow and light. The transmutation of emotional pain and distress with conscious awareness is the alchemical nectar that precedes every transformation.
Working with your shadow also helps you to deepen certain inner facets of yourself and become caring and kind of what you previously ignored, gradually helping you to become more generous to both yourself and others.
All-in-all, Shadow Work is a practice that encourages one to be whole again. It operates under the principle that you must embrace 100% of the shadow, rather than denying or repressing it, to achieve profound healing.
This demanding and sometimes intimidating task is the duty of every human. It’s the process of discovering the inner darkness or the Shadow Self, and it’s an introspective personal practice that anyone can do that can contribute to a more satisfying existence. When dealing with the shadow, you can have moments of enlightenment that contribute to greater integrity, vitality, and emotional liberation.
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